My Virgin Wife is Unwilling To Swallow or perform Anal Sex! Help?!

Dear Couch,

I have been married for about 1 year and 3 months. I love having sex with my wife and she does too but I cant convince her to have anal sex I don't know why. She was a virgin when we got married and it was hard for her at first to have oral sex cause she thought that it was nasty. I also can't convince her to swallow my cum, she is very strict about that. I was wondering if there is anything I can do to make things better.


Dear What Do You Expect,

You married a virgin and now you're whining because she doesn't want to have anal sex!?! Wake up! You've got a few years of being a teacher ahead of you! We've never understood the attraction males have for virgins. You have no idea how good they'll be in the sack and after that, the best you can hope for is whatever you teach them. Actually we do see why insecure males would want a virgin there's no way for them to know how bad their partners are in the sack.

As far as making your sexual relationship with your wife better, you need to be patient. You sound like you've had plenty of experience but she was a virgin when you married her. Stop being greedy and help her to explore her new found sexuality! This woman has given you the gift of being her guide through her deflowering and all future sexual pleasure. This is a huge compliment, and a huge responsibility so get busy! After you're done making your wife comfortable with the usual sexual activities here are a couple of guides to your other questions. First read, with your wife, these Ten Rules of Anal Sex and you can also try the book The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women. As far as swallowing your come is concerned, give her time and these helpful fellatio tips, How To Suck Cock- A 14 Lesson Tutorial. She'll swallow when she's ready. You've just married a virgin for crying out loud! Be patient, teaching, and understanding for cripes sake and you'll have a wonderful, married, sexual life.

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