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Dear Couch,
I am quite
sexually compatible with my new
boyfriend except for one thing-he really
likes my panties, and prefers them after they've
been worn and prefers
simple cotton. As our relationship is long distance for now, he
keeps one
or more pairs on hand....and smells and tastes them. This freaks me out.
And, he
has said he will continue this interest even when (if) we are
together. What is up?
Signed,
All too familiar with
the term 'Panty
Sniffing Freak'
Dear Girlfriend of a Panty Sniffing
Freak,
This is known in the biz as a
fetishism, a
paraphilia in which
the
person derives sexual excitement from an inanimate object. Many
people hear the word
fetish and think only of Bondage or S& M. You
should be thankful for the fact that your
boyfriend is open enough with
you to share this little quirk of his. He most certainly
will continue
this behavior without treatment but he doesn't sound like he has a
problem
with it. You have to decide if you can live
with it.
You know, as far as paraphilias go, there are
a
lot worse ones for your boyfriend to have. What about coprophilia
sexual
arousal and gratification by the act of defecation, or viewing or
smelling the odor of
feces. He'd keep trying to have sex with you in the
potty after you made a big stinky! Or
how about klismaphilia
sexual arousal and gratification from receiving an enema.
That could
really drive up the laundry bill! And don't forget everyone's favorite,
zoophilia
obtaining sexual arousal and gratification through
the contact with animals which is the
primary means of sexual
gratification. Even worse, if he were a really complex case,
you'd
notice him nakedly chasing the cat from the litter box with an
enema hanging out of his
ass. So if you think about it in relation to the
rest of us freaks out there, panty
sniffing ain't so bad.
The Couch
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